I vividly remember recording the very first episode of Raising Boys, Building Men. My hands were sweaty, my heart was pounding, and I had no idea if anyone would listen.

One year and 52 episodes later, I’ve talked with experts, psychologists, and countless moms like you. And I’ve learned this: our boys are in trouble, and moms are worried.

If you’ve ever lain awake at night wondering, Am I doing enough? Will my son be okay?  You are not alone. Today I want to share five lessons that can change the way you see your son (and yourself).

1. Boys Are Struggling—And Moms Know It

From school struggles to anxiety, depression, and the lure of screens, the statistics on boys aren’t encouraging. But here’s what matters: you are the perfect mom for your son.
Instead of focusing on what you don’t know, lean into what you do know. Your intuition matters.

Takeaway: Stop blaming yourself. His choices are his responsibility, and your role is to guide, not carry the weight of it all.

2. Boys Are Confused, Moms Are Scared

Parenting a teenage boy sometimes feels like doing a puzzle with missing pieces. He doesn’t know where he fits, and you’re left guessing what’s really going on.
That fear often leads us to become controlling, but control pushes him further away.

Takeaway: Create a parenting strategy. When you show confidence, your son borrows from it and begins to believe in himself.

3. Boys Are Resilient

No matter how dark things look, teenage boys can bounce back. Research shows that one strong, steady adult can change the entire trajectory of a boy’s life.

Takeaway: Be that steady presence. Your calm, nurturing confidence can become his anchor.

4. Moms Are the Key

This isn’t about adding pressure it’s about empowerment. Your nurturing presence can be the difference between your son spiraling or stabilizing.

Takeaway: Focus on regulating your tone and emotions. A calm mom helps create a calm son.

5. You’re Doing Better Than You Think

The fact that you’re reading this, listening to podcasts, and trying to learn says everything. Your son doesn’t need a different mom. He needs you.

Takeaway: Progress, not perfection, is what shapes your son’s future.

Remember, 

This isn’t easy, but you don’t have to do it alone. You are stronger and more equipped than you realize.

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